I’m busy. My husband is busy. We work full-time, we bring the kids here and there, we try to keep up relationships with our friends and after all of that, we barely have time for each other.
But this month will be different; we are making a commitment to “check in.”
A “check in” is a place in time allocated to communicating with your partner. This “check in” isn’t for discussing upcoming weekend dinner plans with friends, or school events, or who’s bringing the kids to practice Saturday morning. It’s time focused on just you and your partner. It can be a time where you have silly conversations, discuss your hopes and dreams, share what you appreciate about each other, dig into deep topics related to your marriage, or simply check in about each other’s day. Choose what works at that place in time.
Pick a reasonable time and decided on just how often you will “check in.”:
- Pick a reasonable time and decide on just how often you will “check in.” Being reasonable here is key, don’t set yourselves up to fail. Consider what you have going on in the next month that might get in the way of your “check in” – acknowledge it and adjust. Perhaps pick 15 minutes each Mon/Wed/Fri/Sun – 4x a week.
- You might already do this to some extent. Those 5 minutes in bed before you drift off to sleep, the quick exchange sealed with a kiss, before you leave for the day, or maybe it’s the dinner conversation you have during your
I want to challenge you and your partner to commit to a “check in” along with us.
Once you make a commitment, be intentional with your follow through. Do what you need to prepare. And then watch your relationship grow and become stronger.
Just like any new intention, accountability increases your chances for success. Voice your commitment out loud (or on social media) to your friends and family, it might even inspire them to join you! Use #CommitmentToCheckIn to let me know if you and your partner decide to make a commitment to “check in.”
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The Couple Checkup generates deep and productive conversations that couples would not otherwise have about their relationship. These conversations restore insight and understanding about one another. The Couple Checkup can help to revive a relationship and increase intimacy.
The Couple Checkup is an online couple assessment based on the PREPARE/ENRICH couple inventories. The Checkup assessment and Checkup report are designed to go directly to couples at any stage of their relationship (dating, engaged or married). The online system allows for dynamic customization of the assessment to each couple based on how the couple answers background questions. The goal is for the Couple Checkup to reach a more diverse group of couples, to empower couples to deal with issues on their own and to emphasize prevention over remediation.
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